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Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

“Who do you think you are? You think you’re so special to go off to save the world and you don’t even do enough in your own back yard. Charity starts at home, you know.”

We just knew someone would say something along those lines at some stage. Didn’t make it hurt any the less when it finally happened though.

Rob was very hesitant about “going on tv”. Very Hesitant. In fact, at first he said, “No. We don’t want that kind of exposure, it’s not like we’re even doing anything particularly special and many people are giving their lives up to great causes every day. They are the ones who should be on television.”
But then we considered the fact that it’s not about us, not about what we feel comfortable with. And we figured if we were given such an opportunity to raise just one person’s awareness of the needs of others around the world, then perhaps we had a responsibility to use it. Never mind that we didn’t end up getting to say much about that at all. Doesn’t change that THAT was our hope as the makeup was brushed across our faces.

And now we’re wishing we hadn’t done it.

We don’t want people thinking that we think we are wonderful. Coz we’re not. We’re just one family, who has had a goal to give its children the experience of life-outside-our-privileged-world. And so that’s what we’re going to do. It’s true, that we will volunteer at a few places along the way – but that doesn’t make us exceptionally philanthropic. It’s just who we are. When we’re at home we help refugees settle in the country and take meals to families with new babies and we usually have so many kids around the house that being in an orphanage will not seem that unusual.

So, who do I think I am? Not someone special. Not someone wonderful. Fortunately, you don’t have to be special or wonderful in order to make a difference in the world. You don’t need to be perfect to make a little difference in someone’s life. You don’t have to have it all together to decide to do something good. We’ll make mistakes, but we can’t live in the negative. We’ve got to do the best with what we’ve been given.

*friendship*

Sunday, June 8th, 2008

“Maybe you guys could escort us on our first ever out of western civilisation trip.”
So suggested good friends a couple of years ago when we were tentatively dicussing maybe possibly perhaps going to the UK via Malaysia. They would come for the Malaysia leg.

When our plans firmed up more recently we threw the ball into their court again.

A couple of months ago they threw it back.
“What would it cost us? Where could we go? What would we do? Should we bring the two-year-old?”

It only took us a couple of hours to answer all the questions with ideas and suggestions and what-we-would-do-if-we-were-you-s.

But they couldn’t decide.
Then last Tuesday Mr Uncertain gave himself a deadline: Saturday morning.

Mrs Hopeful’s eyes sparkled in anticipation at the closeness of the decision.

And we waited.
By mid-morning we had to text them.
They returned texts, one word at a time:

We

have

decided

that

you should be patient.

Grr!!!!!!! But before we knew it, they were telling us they would come, two-year-old-n-all.
How exciting!!
And the mad scramble for finding flights in peak season began.
But they’re not going to Malaysia.
They’re jumping in the deep end.
**Christmas in Cambodia**
We’ll all meet up in Bangkok and then travel together by train into The Unknown.
We told them about temples and cultural experiences they cannot imagine from the comfort of New Zealand; their research had brought to their attention landmines, high temperatures and spicy food. We added snakes to the mix and turned the conversation towards something less risky.
How can you reassure someone when you’re actually a bit nervous yourself?
You can’t promise it will be all right.
You don’t even know what it will be like.
You know your own limitations, but you can only guess at theirs.

What a journey it is going to be as we walk through our apprehensions side by side, visiting 800 year old temples, an enormous rubbish dump which is home to thousands, the Killing Fields, orphanages, schools and who-knows-what-else. We’re yet to write the itinerary together.

Lest we forget

Tuesday, June 3rd, 2008
We never expected it to be easy. But I'm not sure we realised it would be this tricky! For the past couple of months *impossible* has been ringing in our ears. But we don't do impossible. Roadblocks call for detours, not an end to ... [Continue reading this entry]

*WE DID IT*

Monday, June 2nd, 2008
"SSSHHHH," he whispered somewhat unnecessarilly as I was only just emerging from slumberland and had little intention of making my wakeful state yet known! "Is it raining?" he continued. We sssssshhhh-ed, ears alert to the drops falling outside. Were they falling from ... [Continue reading this entry]

thirty seconds……ten…..five, four……

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008
...three, two, one fingers showing. And then the camera was rolling. We'd already been in the TVNZ studio for an hour, wandered around the bowels of the building, had make-up done in front of very bright lights and enormous mirrors, leaving the ... [Continue reading this entry]

snowballing

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008
An article in the local rag.........then Rob's real employer (not the one touted in the newspaper article ;-) ) is sending an email round work encouraging colleagues to get behind "their man"........simultaneously at my workplace (that would be home!) the phone ... [Continue reading this entry]

from Auckland to Kampot takes a very long post

Thursday, May 8th, 2008
We're in full swing getting ready for the Silent Auction. Local church hall is booked. Junk Items For Sale are gathered (read: piled up in the bedroom). Handmade cards are nearing completion. Local newspaper interview has been given. Fizzing Sherbet production ... [Continue reading this entry]

we love the courier

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008
way back when in the olden days air tickets were an impressive-looking document, with multiple pages and a cardboard outer shell holiday scrapbooks opened with this visible proof that We Went On An Aeroplane Of course, today ... [Continue reading this entry]

anxiety attack

Friday, May 2nd, 2008
what if we can't find a hostel one night? how will we keep the kids safe? are we really going to carry all that gear? do we have enough cold weather gear? why didn't we go to Mongolia in the summer? ;-) what if the ... [Continue reading this entry]

visa requirements

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008
A night of googling didn't reveal everything.......but I've sent off emails to consulates and embassies........we'll wait and see what happens. This plan-your-own-trip-lark takes a bit of Getting Your Head Around. I don't expect anybody in the whole wide world to ... [Continue reading this entry]