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Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

by the idealistic Mama
Berlin, Germany

“What will you remember about Berlin, other than waiting waiting waiting?” I asked.

We *should* be answering things like the amazing glass structure that is the Central Station or the middle-of-the-city-zoo or the Brandenburg Gate or Checkpoint Charlie…
But we haven’t made it to any of those places yet, and it will be a few more days before we do! Life has been consumed with cooking for large numbers of people, struggling through beauracracy, sorting out Womos, bantering with pros and cons of different options, baking bread (that’s our loaf, the round one in the picture), finding more accommodation, buying pots and pans, playing house again, stocking the cupboards, doing washing……

And so we will remember

  • the fire engine sirens
  • the graffiti
  • the blossoms billowing like snowflakes
  • the bicycles honking in cycle lanes (that some family members STILL walk in)
  • the Turkish market
  • couchsurfing
  • playgrounds

Ah, yes, playgrounds.
Apparently Berlin has the most green space out of any European city and we can well believe that. There is a park on every corner, and in many of those parks are children’s playgrounds. Ordinarilly, I am not a huge fan of playground equipment, which tends to be limited in its scope for imagination….but maybe that’s just in New Zealand. Berlin playgrounds are different. For a start, there’s no cotton wool safety – it’s all adventure and danger!! German children are allowed to climb high, swing high and spin out of control. It sounds not too different to our backyard – except there are squirrels running along the branches and different bugs and birds to watch.
Another PLUS for Berlin is that very little of the equipment is plastic. It’s no secret that one of my many soapboxes is *use natural renewable materials whenever possible*, and it’s just so smooth and warm to climb sturdy wooden structures. Maybe silly of me. But I do think children who grow up in a plastic environment somehow miss out on tactile experiences, so I appreciate these playgrounds.

We have picnicked in the parks, played Go Home Stay Home with couchsurfing hosts and had plenty of kids-play-while-Dadda-does-business hours too.

We’ll definitely remember Berlin as the place of playgrounds.

And look at this:

When we got to Moscow we saw the first blades of green grass we had seen for quite some time. When we moved a little further west we came across grass we were not forbidden from stepping on. By the time we got to Germany there were people sitting on grass in public spaces everywhere and we felt quite at home. But this particular park still awed me with its greenness after a few brown months.

yawn

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

by Rach
Berlin, Germany

more of the same ol’ same ol’

For a start, Berlin is just like Auckland – showers interspersed with heavy downpours.
Grey clouds all day. We’d forgotten about rain (and how nice it was to do so!)

We ate black bread, cheese and gherkin sandwiches for lunch. Again. Funny to think we were hankering after cheese just a few short months ago!

We did a load of washing in a machine and hung it up to dry on a clotheshorse. So that was a bit of a novelty actually (we were thankful to not be handwashing or stringing our too short laundry line somewhere where we would decapitate ourselves in the middle of the night)….but at the end of the day washing is washing.

And the motorhome saga continued.
We found a car dealer a couple of days back with a motorhome for sale. It looked like it might fit the bill as our second vehicle and it was in Berlin. Off Rob and Dad trotted to have a look yesterday. The dealer believed he could help us with insurance and registration for BOTH vehicles. Problem was….well actually, the list of problems is so long it’s boring…but the upshot was that a Canadian guy where we are living would be able to fill out the paperwork (and yes, theoretically, *own* our motorhomes). He seems like a nice bloke and is interested in international political relations, so he’s gonna be trustworthy, right? He even insisted he would love to come to Frankfurt for the weekend when we need to sell, so that paperwork could be signed. Nice bloke, I tell ya.

So today he toddled off to the dealer with our men, all of us hopeful that the deal would soon be tied up – but everyone aware that the fact he has no driver’s license might be an issue. If German officialdom will not sell a conviction-free passport-holding money-offering foreigner a vehicle, there’s every possibility they will not let an unlicensed guy buy one either.
Not to worry, when they got there it turned out the dealer couldn’t do the insurance as promised anyway.
BUT….and this is a very important but…..somewhere in the proceedings the fact that Rob holds a British passport emerged and Nice New Canadian Friend lit up like a Christmas tree in December.
“You can register yourself”!” he exclaimed.
But not today. The office was closed by mid-afternoon when enlightenment occurred.
And tomorrow it doesn’t open until 11, so we’re not going to know in a hurry. But by hook or by crook we’re going to explore that avenue to the very end. 
*If* it actually happens (though we’re not holding our breath!), we will be able to own the vehicles ourselves and drive them wherever we want and sell them whenever we want, to whomever we want. But if it doesn’t work out, there’s still that philanthropic Canadian.

After that dead-end saga, Dad went for a walk to find the wall.
Wall? Oh yes, we’re in Berlin, there’s a famous wall here. Every day our housemates ask, “Are you going to see something today?” So far we haven’t seen much unrelated to the motorhome quest, and even that has only taken the men out! The rest of us have been limited to watching the cars and trams and trains and bicycles and pedestrians and ubiquitous fire engines outside our window. We have managed to walk to the park and the supermarket. We have heard there’s a book shop with English books around the corner, but we haven’t made it there yet. We’re too busy finishing the books in the house! And playing musical instruments and board games and trying out an airbrush and cooking for twenty plus people (that is to say, the kids cooked tonight – I didn’t do anything, but the dishes).

Dad, however, found the wall; he’ll be taking the rest of us back to it another day. The main memorial is just a 2km walk away (although there is an even closer stretch and the kids have already played at The Wall Park)….but we just might wait and travel there in Das Womo!

PS Just for Nova, our most frequent commenter. The beans were removed from the window, some were even eaten, but the remaining ones were restrung on the fridge. And *that* I got a photo of. I also noticed some other remains of the young-men-with-too-much-free-time-and-not-enough-purpose-antics on the wall in another photo too, so here they both are for you! The chair was on the white bit of wall you can see in the pic beside the door. And all those knives were stuck to the wall too. Pity they don’t put so much effort in to doing the dishes at night so that we relatively-early-wakers-with-children would arrive in a tidy kitchen in the morning <wink>

berlin beginnings

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009

by Mama
Berlin, Germany

We arrive at 7 on a Sunday morning.
Everything is closed and will remain so all day, apart from the flea market we zip off to ... [Continue reading this entry]

some quick transit thoughts: Latvia to Germany, through Lithuania and Poland in 21hours on a bus with an alcoholic

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009
by the Mama, who gave away her jacket-pillow in the middle of the night overnight (and all day for that matter) on the bus from Riga to Berlin

It would seem a little unfair to make sweeping generalisations about an ... [Continue reading this entry]

colliding worldviews

Friday, May 1st, 2009
by the accommodation-sorter Riga, Latvia On The Bus There’s something about sitting next to a non-stop chatterbox for five hours! For a few minutes, as Tgirl5 processes observations that the rest of the world is not exactly like our family, the conversation goes ... [Continue reading this entry]

We found her!

Saturday, April 25th, 2009

by the Mama, who loves watching the children connect their learning St Petersburg, Russia Last year we read Gloria Whelan’s book, “The Angel on the Square”. So captivated by the descriptions, we added St Petersburg to our wish-list-itinerary, ... [Continue reading this entry]

a long tradition

Thursday, April 16th, 2009
sorry this is incomplete – with the strains of “if it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing properly” ringing in my ears, I publish this unproper piece! We’ll get back to it some not-so-busy-catch-up-y day. Orkhon, Mongolia Modern day Mongolians, even urban ... [Continue reading this entry]

“There Won’t Be A Cake Here, Will There?”

Monday, April 13th, 2009
by the Mama Orkhon, Mongolia Birthday Breakfast Under the orange-painted rafters you awoke, the glow form the firebox casting colour on your cheeks. Five years old in Mongolia.

Fortuitously for you, yesterday there had been cause for ... [Continue reading this entry]

*spring*

Sunday, April 12th, 2009
by Rach Orkhon, Mongolia Spring is supposed to be a time of new life. Here it seems that rather than filling the people with expectancy and anticipation, everyone is heaving a sigh of relief that they survived another winter. And because ... [Continue reading this entry]

authentic anak

Saturday, April 11th, 2009
by Rach Orkhon, Mongolia I was a teeny bit apprehensive about signing up for time at Anak Ranch. It might be a real working farm, but it also has a snazzy website and is supposedly set up to cater to ... [Continue reading this entry]