a random act of kindness?
As I was walking back to my apartment today, I came upon an elderly man pulling a cart loaded with stuff. I approached him, offering to assist by putting my hand on his cart, but he slapped away my hand and marched forward. I waited for a minute, and approached again ~ this time replacing his hand on the cart with mine and gesturing that he keep walking. We were at a stare-down-stand-still for a few seconds, but then he started walking … and kept walking … and continued walking (at this point I’m thinking what the hell did I get myself into) until we finally reached his home, about a mile up the steep hill from where we started our journey. ( I’m thinking “Holy Christ! This dude appears to be about 150 years old, and he was hauls this cart up here?”) After I unloaded his cart, he grasped my shoulders and said, “Miguk?” (America?) “Sho shank you. Shank you. Gomap-seumnida!” (thank you!) To which I offered the deepest bow I can manage and responded, “My pleasure. Cheonman-eyo.” (you’re welcome) And I went home, satisfied with my limited ability to speak polite Korean phrases.
That was a week or so ago … whatever … I didn’t give it much thought, I guess.
Today, as I was walking home from school, I encountered a group of elderly ladies who were eagerly chattering and gesturing for me to come to them. After a few minutes of pantomime and wild gestures (and a few key words in Korean), I figured out that they were trying to tell me that I must be the American woman – they kept pointing to my apartment building (where I have my flag prominently displayed) and waving at the hill – that helped the man with his cart. A happy bunch ~ clapping and laughing and chattering.
Actually, I don’t know if they are laughing and clapping because I am an ignorant foreigner who was “duped” into carrying the load, or if they think that I am OK. Worst case scenario, I suppose, is that they may expect me to be their new “delivery person” …
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May 11th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
Sweet. I am sure they were appreciative. Or they thought you were hitting on the old guy. (Just kidding.)
May 11th, 2009 at 10:48 pm
He was indeed pretty cute, potentially quite a catch.
But I’m spoken for.