Kendall’s Quest:

If I could read five pages at once, I would be doing that. My hunger to know is so great. I’m dimly aware of the rest of the world: 360 women, many of them Tibetan nuns, arrested in Nepal. Unimaginable suffering in Burma, where a Red Cross boat full of aid supplies for survivors sank in flood waters. But inside my head, I’m transfixed by the baby daddy drama of my own life. Max–via his girlfriend Susan, who has the computer skills–has sent me pictures of Jacob Paul Linn, Jr., and his second family, Max’s family. (Third family if my mom and I can be counted as his first “family,” and then what is family? is it a genetic unit? an emotional unit? a legal entity? what are the ties that bind?) I sit and stare at the pictures on my monitor, inviting them to talk to me, tell me stories. There is something eerily familiar in these faces. I study the forehead, the nose, the bridge of the nose, the slant of the eyes, the cheekbones, the shape of the head. What do we get from our genes? I’m reading books I never imagined I would read in all my life: books about merchant ships during WW2. I even got a 1943 Humphrey Bogart movie in which Bogart is First Mate on a merchant ship: torpedoes, flames on the water, stereotypical German officers in submarines (observation: when the “Germans” die, they scream in agony; when the “Allies” die, they look stoically and silently toward heaven), violins playing as the wives back home wait for the news.  The movie must have been in production when Jacob Paul Linn, Sr. was First Mate on the S.S. Leslie and died at sea. The movie starts with a quotation from FDR that ends, “Damn the torpedoes. Full steam ahead!” and it made my eyes fill up. I’ve heard that phrase before, but I didn’t connect with it. Now I do. I’m also reading Judith Plaskow’s Standing Again at Sinai (wonderfully well-written, fascinating: and here’s a short, powerful article by Judith that’s like the condensed version), and I watched a documentary on the Yiddish Theatre . Even if I’m not Jewish, even if I’m not Jake Linn’s daughter (but I think I am, I think I am), I’m having a great time learning all of this.

I just went for a long, long walk down 21st Street and back up 23rd Street on a Friday night studded with stars, flower petals, and teenagers with pink hair and nose rings, trying to take in the staggering revelations of this day and to make sense of the existential koan in which I find myself. Who am I? Or more specifically, whose DNA am I carrying around? If Jacob Paul Linn, Jr. was, as my mother said, my father–then in addition to the three children my mother had after me, I have one brother who was profoundly retarded and spent his whole life in a mental institution in Gainesville, Florida; a sister who killed herself; another sister who is severely mentally ill; a brother who is a Ghostwriter and lives in Montreal; and another brother who ran for Governor of Florida a couple of years ago, is still running for public office, and has a picture of himself with Barack Obama on his homepage. I have seen, finally, a whole series of photographs of the man my mother said was my father. All my life I thought if I could just see one photograph, I would know without a doubt whether he is my father or not. But I’m still not certain. I sort of look like him. I have the same wattle and jowls he developed in his sixties, the same high, broad forehead. But he had dark hair like my mother’s. How did I come out blonde? He was sort of tall and rangy in his youth, but he drank and put on weight before he died from a heart attack at sixty-nine. He sort of looks like my sons, but not enough that I can say for sure. He was not raised Jewish, and nobody who is still living knows whether his father was Jewish or not. [read on]

For the past couple of days I’ve been obsessively and delightedly exploring my Jewish grandfather’s life story, as far as I can piece it together from historical records. I’m riveted. About an hour ago I got an email from a genealoger who says my Virginia grandmother was not Jewish, but was the daughter of a Baptist preacher! If that’s true, Hildegarde must have stirred a hornet’s nest by marrying Jacob Paul Linn, a Jew from Latvia, in 1920. Their story continues to grip me, but it has taken me off the task I’d started, which is saying something about “race,” so in the interest of finishing at least a piece of what I started…I want to get back to Rev. Jeremiah Wright , Barack Obama, and Race. When the right-wing media had its heyday with Wright, they cut his speeches and sermons to shreds and left out everything he said that didn’t suit their purposes. I’ve already posted Father Pfleger’s defense of Wright. Father Pfleger knows Wright well and says it better than I ever could, but I’d like to take an academic’s approach and direct us to the text. I had listened to Rev. Wright’s speech to the Press Club on the radio while I was doing something else, but I went back again to the Rev’s speech (all of which is on Youtube, along with the hateful cuttings of his sermons) and I took some notes. I want to point out what Wright says that the media didn’t pick up. [read on]

I’m going to write about race again, and I will get back to Rev. Wright and Barack Obama, but first, this hot news flash. While I was fiddling around on the internet yesterday, I found out who my father was, who his parents were, and that they were Jewish. I had suspected this, but until now I wasn’t sure. My mother told me my father was Jewish, but she wasn’t always a reliable source, and she only mentioned this, often calling me a “Kyke,” when she was angry. I’ve never seen a picture of my father or seen any other proof of his existence. So last night I stumbled upon a couple of websites that have all kinds of documents (passport applications, military draft records, border crossings, ship passengers, death records), and I got completely caught up in detective work. What a love story I discovered!

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 I’ve tried to make my life my statement about race, even though we’ve known since W.E.B. DuBois said it in 1914 that scientifically “race” doesn’t exist.  Race is not inscribed in our genes, any more than “class” is. But the perception of race exists. People have been enslaved, imprisoned, lynched, raped, tortured, and shot because of the perception of race. People hate each other, fear each other, and make assumptions about each other based on the perception of race. I am racist because I was born White in a system of power based on the perception of race. I’m part of that system. I can’t get out; my skin is what it is, and there is nowhere on this planet untainted by that system. Therefore I choose to work on myself, to be aware and vigilant for ways I embody or absorb racist ideology, and to put the whole weight of my life into the effort to educate myself out of it and to counteract racism in every small way I can. I will always have plenty of work to do, inside and outside. Plenty of people have written about race better than I will ever be able to. But I need to begin putting a few words together, if only to join a conversation with White people about race in our lives. Anybody else is welcome to listen in, chime in, or quit reading now. Very few people read this blog, so what I’m about to say will remain secret. Despite that, I have trepidation. My grandmother told me a version of something Jeremiah Wright’s grandmother told him: “If you keep your mouth shut, you won’t ever say anything to make people think you’re stupid.” He didn’t heed his grandmother’s warning, and neither have I. Whatever it is that I’m about to say will be flawed, imperfect, inadequate, and a work in progress. So here I go. [read on]

Conjunction of events at the mailbox yesterday afternoon: I received a remarkable letter from a prisoner I’ve known for some years who is 42 and locked-in (in what is called Administrative Segregation or Ad Seg–spends his life literally in a cage surrounded by the din of other men locked into cages all around him); and I received my rental of Julian Schnabel’s brilliant production of The Diving Bell and the Butterfly , which is about Jean Dominique Bauby, who had “Locked-in Syndrome” (he could hear and understand everything, but he was completely paralyzed and unable to move any part of his body but his left eye) as a result of a stroke he suffered when he was 42. [read on]

Thanks to Hafidha, whose blog brought this amazing ten-minute argument to my attention! I haven’t heard such a powerful anti-racist statement in years. Those of you who are not in the USA may not understand the whole argument–and you don’t need to understand the whole argument. The core of what this priest says is simply obvious to anyone who looks closely at what passes for dissent in the USA: when a white person criticizes the U.S. government, it’s “criticism”; when a Black person criticizes the U.S. government, it’s “hate.” The hate-mongering Fox News interviewer is utterly out of his depth with this man, and it is a thrill to see how powerfully Father Pfleger re-frames the discussion in terms of poverty, class, race, and history, and away from the interviewer’s intention of fanning hatred, bigotry, and ignorance by means of kneejerk soft-headed opinion and out-of-context sound-bites .  Father Pfleger speaks with clarity, force, and sharp intelligence. Anyone who has not seen this video, please drop everything else in your life and watch it now. Or as soon as you possibly can.

I’ve been diddling around on the computer all day while I could have been out marching for immigration in the streets of Portland. I feel vaguely guilty for sitting on my butt, but here I am anyway, and here’s what I’ve discovered. Flickr has changed the rules. Now if you want to store more than 200 pictures, you have to pay. If you want more than three “sets,” you have to pay. I was afraid that would happen. Until now I’ve been using the blog for words, with a link to Flickr for pictures. No more free ride there. Anybody know any reliable free sites for storing photographs? On the other hand, there’s Youtube, which I sometimes forget. But what a resource! Moonbeam McQueen’s blog for today is so hilarious I had to read it three times to take it all in–especially Dennis and Vageena. And check out the birdhouse. Genius on wheels. I want her to move to Portland. And I’ve just found two really delightful new blogs. One is by Jamie, who I met in Houston just before she moved to New York state to go “homesteading” (and if you are like me and you don’t know what that means, I’ll come back to it in a minute). The other is a delightful blog by a woman the age of my firstborn son who calls herself ”Old Crone” (if she’s an old crone, what does that make me? a withered hag?). OC writes with energy and infectious delight. She posted the following ode to Aretha: [read on]