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“Don’t go to Romania,” they said. “Especially not for a whole month,” they urged.

Saturday, November 28th, 2009

Pitesti, Romania

Before arriving in Romania, we spoke to countless Romanians, all of whom were most disparaging about their capital city, Bucharest, and most of whom were unimpressed with the rest of the country as well. Once we arrived here, we discovered the Romanians left behind agree with the capital verdict, but they have a special place in their hearts for the rest of the country.
We cannot comment on the biggest city, having not been there, but just a few short trips from Brasov have shown us amazing countryside. Mountains as spectacular as any of the other alps in Europe. Canyons rivalling all others we have been through. Hairpin bends as tight, even if not as frequent, as Italy. Tunnels chiselled out of rock. Bridges to impress. A dam, so still it revealed a reflection of trees and mountains, so perfect, it looked unreal. Quaint villages with intricate woodwork, colourful paint, benches inviting conversation, decorated window frames, delightful rooflines. Monasteries, churches, and even a castle (popularly known as Dracula’s, even if this detail is historically inaccurate).

7am Saturday, before the sun rises, while the night’s coldness still grips Brasov, we set out. Two cars and a van. Most of the group we went hiking with last weekend.
First stop Bran, for Dracula’s Castle. We don’t actually visit – we, in the first vehicle, just stop to let the others catch up. Kids bounce out of the van to play on the playground while we wait. It does not take long for them to return to the van to don thermal underwear and knitted vests, gloves and hats. On we drive over the hills, looking down on shepherd’s huts and people’s houses, buried far in the valley we leave behind, shrouded in mist.

Second stop, a rock. But this is not any old rock. It’s a rock with a path beckoning us to clamber up and over. And down the other side. To a chapel, first mentioned in literature in 1512, but most probably dating back to the 1300s. Various scenes  painted directly on the cave ceiling are peeling off, but still awe-inspiring. Religious icons are simultaneously rich and simplistic. For sale in the adjoining room, are not only beads and pamphlets, but knitted slippers and vests. Do you have trouble imagining monks sitting around knitting? I did, too! I know men can and do knit, but it turns out this particular monastery is actually a “nunnery”, the very first “women’s monastery” in Romania.

Third stop, a dam, lake and lunch.

By the time we set off again it’s 2:30pm. The moon has just risen and it looks like the sun is about to set. That’s because it is! In just two hours it will be gone. But that still leaves us time to wind our way up the mountain to the beginning of the snow, engage in snowball fights, make a teeny-tiny snowman, slide down the slope, get wet and cold, and watch the sunset in awe.

Rob thinks we’re driving directly to our accommodation for the night, a fair assumption, given that it’s two and a half hours away, it’s already 5pm and when we arrive we need to cook for 25 people. But he’s wrong.

On the way is another monastery. Even under cover of darkness it is impressive. The huge wrought iron gates are firmly shut, a sign notifying us of opening hours and cost. One of our party has a word with the guard, and we find ourselves being admitted, free of charge as it is outside visiting hours! “This is Romania,” our host explains. With the sun now a distant memory, it is cold; chattering teeth cold. We stay only long enough to take note of the distinctive orthodox Romanian architecture.
Rob’s tummy might be rumbling, but it was a stop well worth making!

On to Pitesti (pronounced pi as in pip, tesh, t……you need to imagine a little dot under the s for it to be authentic). The last few kilometres are driven on Romania’s  motorway. The speed limit might be 130km/hr, but with no street lighting, we avoid that kind of speed. The road, however, is much better than others we have driven on over the course of the day.
We had been warned about Romanian roads when we were contemplating driving here in the motorhomes – atrocious, we were told. “Italian,” we would now reply! If you’ve driven in Italy, you are prepared for Romania – it’s really not so bad. Yes, it’s bumpy, but it’s not *that* bad, not for long stretches at a time anyway! Actually the two worst menaces are stray dogs, which appear out of nowhere, and real live humans in dark clothing, who materialise on the road – not on the verge, because there often isn’t one, but right on the road where you are driving in darkness. At dusk you are also likely to meet cows returning home for the night, but they are big enough to see easily.

We get to Pitesti, where we are welcomed by the parents of one of our group. They have kindly opened their home to us for the night. Great-Grandma of our group’s baby is also there. Four generations.
We take over the kitchen. I am under strict instructions that I am a guest and not permitted to do anything, but no-one objects when I peel the garlic for the ubiquitous garlic sauce. I am, however, severely reprimanded for considering to hep with dishes after dinner <wink> But that’s a while away. Cooking for twenty-five takes some time! Rob pokes his head in to the kitchen periodically in hopeful anticipation, but he has to wait for the dozen children to eat before the adults are permitted to. Again, it’s well worth the wait. Every time we have mamaliga it gets better and better – this time is the best. Probably due to the accompanying sausages (by the way, you know how everyone talks about German sausages being so amazing – well, we much prefer Polish or Romanian ones – they are in a class of their own – no offense intended to our German friends)….yes, sausages and garlic sauce and eggs and cheeses (yes, two different sorts of cheese, piled on in quantities we would never consider using at home! Another “by the way”….by the way, Romanians don’t use “spreads” on their bread – they use “piles”….jam, honey, nutella, cheese, pickles – all are piled on at least a centimetre thick. This is one tradition our children would like to take home with them!!) And while we’re talking about the cheeses. One is a name we were told was too difficult for us to pronounce or remember; it’s a creamy white ball of cheese contained in a sheep’s stomach (or something similar), with a hint of “blue” about it. Delicious. The other was a very light yellow cheese, which in a few days’ time I will try to discover how to make, so that we can use handfuls of it, Romanian-style. But tonight, we just enjoy.

10pm and we finish eating. Kids are sent to bed under strict instructions not to make a peep before 8am, and all the adults follow suite immediately. We wonder, did the Romanians we met in the rest of Europe not visit this part of their country?

hard to say

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

Brasov, Romania

We arrived in Romania knowing how to say “Praise the Lord!” in Romanian and that we had once known how to say, “I love you”. Both have fairly limited contexts for use.

Quickly we learnt:  
yes
no
thank you
is
good/fine
a few numbers
Guten Appetit
hot
(which sounds like *cold* just to confuse you)
cake
goodbye
(it’s a pity we forgot how to say hello and therefore couldn’t say anything meaningful until *leaving* each stall at the market)
Having failed with the first form of hello, next we learnt how to say it in Transylvania – useful because that’s where we are. But maybe not so useful after all; turns out it’s just for use with good friends. Note to self: make more of an effort to learn *hello*

By today (and a morning spent at the market saying “da” to everything and having no idea what was being said, we decided it would be prudent to learn how to say, “I do not understand. I do not speak Romanian.” Leo and Lili and their four children came for dinner and we quizzed them. Thankfully it’s easy! In the course of trying out some phrases we even learnt our first conjugation. And we have started coming to terms with dots and squiggles put in funny places, the hard sh sound and more vowels than we realised existed. 

Picking up language in situ is easy. Just by listening to the Romanians we have been hanging out with (or eavesdropping on conversations at the market) you pick up so much (like BUT, REALLY!, CHURCH, BLACK, SCHOOL, BUS, TAXI). And by reading packets of food we’ve bought, we’ve learnt more. And by googling white cheese, we’ve learnt oodles – there are over a dozen sorts here! We have had the added advantage of having a television (never thought I’d say *that* was an advantage!) and with most of the programmes being subtitled, you learn. Reading song lyrics and following a written discussion outline have also added to our informal “lessons”!

I say it’s easy, but maybe that’s an oversimplification. For example, I have picked up some contexts in which to use a particular phrase/word (see I don’t even know if it’s one word, or two – and as for the spelling, who knows? – this is just what it sounds like to my untrained ear) “HEI-DE”. When your kids are standing in the way of someone on the street, you say it. When you are ready to leave someone’s house, you say it. I guess it means something like “Come here” or “Go now” or “Move”, but I’m not certain. I can, however, use it and make our Romanian friends smile!

I say it’s easy, but that’s not entirely true. Yes, you learn more Romanian living in Romania than you would living at home with no exposure to it. But it still takes effort. And I have to confess I think I might be suffering from end-of-trip-itis. When I compare my language acquisition in Laos to here, there’s definitely some enthusiasm lacking. Before heading out to the market tomorrow, I will forget to re-read the phrases jotted down tonight – oh, I’ll think about it as I trot down the stairs, but I won’t be bothered going back for the scrap of paper. Pity, coz it would have meant I could get half a kilo of cheese *easily* instead of causing the poor shop assistant to explain that I have to buy a block and she cannot slice it!
Perhaps motivation was higher in Laos, because we didn’t want to get ripped off and the language was so different that there was no way we could just guess. Romanian is a Romance language, which naturally means it has a lot in common with Italian (not that we’re experts with Italian either, after just one month there!), but it does provide a bit of wriggle-room for making slightly educated guesses. There was no chance of guessing in Laos!
Possibly we’re getting lazy. Tomorrow we’ll go in to a travel agent to find out about tickets to Istanbul. I still won’t have remembered, “Hello” (lazy), so I’ll just launch in with “Do you speak English?” (lazy) and when she replies, “Yes”, I’ll be relieved (lazy). She won’t be able to help, but will point us up the street to another agent. We will KNOW he can help, but he will not speak a word of English. Not One Word. With lots of gesticulation and pointing-at-map-and-calendar and throwing round a few random words from various languages, we will spend a good half hour just to find out the cost of a bus ticket, where the bus leaves from and how long the journey takes (19 hours aaagghh). I realise we’d do well to return with our phrasebook, but in the end, we decide to get Leo to ring and confirm the little we have learnt (lazy again).

Must say, though, that when you make an effort, it is richly rewarded here. Even saying one Romanian word brings broad grins onto withered old wrinkled faces, young make-up-ed faces and stubbly-bearded faces alike. People are eager to help you learn and willing to repeat things until you get it right. One small effort to learn one word today resulted in the lady at the next stall asking (I think) if all those children milling around were mine. You could just tell she would have launched into conversation if we had possessed the ability. Must be time to learn one of the phrases that we usually pick up very quickly in a country: eight children!

Or maybe the novelty of learning something that you’re only going to use for a short time has simply worn off. Hard to say.

moving again

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009
Budapest, Hungary Our final day in Krakow is Independence Day. Undoubtedly there will be a big parade. Patriotism runs rife here. There will be red and white flags flapping, national costumes, brass bands, pomp and circumstance. But it’s pouring with rain, ... [Continue reading this entry]

dooo-do-do-doo

Tuesday, November 10th, 2009
Krakow, Poland She heard the whoosh of the car racing at breakneck speed through the puddle. She turned to see who, on that busy street behind her, would wear the splash. It turned out to be her! The car had sounded as if ... [Continue reading this entry]

a stroke of culture

Monday, November 9th, 2009
Krakow, Poland What do you do when you turn up in a country where you don’t speak the language and very few people speak English? Well, I don’t know what you would do, but we went from door to door in ... [Continue reading this entry]

grey

Sunday, November 8th, 2009
Krakow, Poland

Our ... [Continue reading this entry]

Best. Ever. Bigos. (OR “I never cooked with vodka before”) * and also an addendum about pickles just for the fun of it *

Saturday, November 7th, 2009
Krakow, Poland

 

Prepare at least three days before needed! Preferably make a huge portion and leave it sitting on your balcony all winter long. 1kg fresh white cabbage, shredded finely 1t salt    Place in a heavy pot ... [Continue reading this entry]

u Stasi

Friday, November 6th, 2009
Krakow, Poland We peered in through the fogged up windows. Yes! There were a few little tables with wooden chairs, yes there were coathooks on the wall, yes, there was the tiled hatch to put dirty dishes through, but more importantly, ... [Continue reading this entry]

it’s surprising he came with us at all

Thursday, November 5th, 2009
Krakow, Poland “We should take a picture for Grandpa!” ”And one of the sticker too” ”I know! Why don’t you put it on your ear?!”

It all started in Mongolia. We stayed in gers, and gers are ... [Continue reading this entry]

boys need daddies

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009
Krakow, Poland Look how nippy it was this morning:

And last night it was –11*C in Brasov, where we are soon headed, so everyone is hoping the forecast snow will be a biggie! Anyway, I digress, ... [Continue reading this entry]