Glitter The World

 First and Last time as an Octopus Huntress

Another day another snorkeling adventure.  This time Sandun and I assisted (I observed) an octopus catching.  I watched from the surface as his friend prodded and chased the poor little octopus at the bottom of the sea as the mister octopus sprayed his black ink.  I wont go into detail about the catching, but let me just say that his body was turned inside out and his poor little heart destroyed.  After inspecting his beautiful tenticles (which still strongly suctioned to my skin as if he were still alive) I held his heart in the palm of my hand, taking a few moments to honor his life before letting go of it and attentitively watching as it so delicately returned itself to the bottom of the sea.  I felt a little better once I wittnessed a school of fish immediately eating the remains… his heart was not wasted.  At this moment did I experience a brief understanding of the circle of life.

A Grandmother’s grave,  a Sri Lankan funeral, Tsunami damage, and the fish harbor 

Sandun and I took a tuk tuk ride around the country side today.  On our way to his grandfathers house, we passed the fish harbor.  Boats of all shapes, sizes and colors float side by side in the harbor.  Some boats had been freshley used, and others patiently wait for a good time venture out for a catch.  One of the seasoned vessels carried a load of giant fish (not sure what they were called so I will call them Giant Fish) that were being unloaded and weighed.  They looked like tiny fish but with gigantic bodies and they were as large as me!! They all weight several hundred kilos.  I was invited inside of one of the freezers in the back of the truck where I gently stroked the lifeless fishies.  I couldn’t help but wonder how sush a large creature could get around by such small fins.  They had to have been only a few inches long and not even a centimeter thick!  I pressed into his tiny little teeth and scraped the film on his eyeball, which didn’t feel any different then his skin/scales.   

On the way to Sandun’s grandfather’s house, we went through the villages that were devestated by the tsunami 5 years ago.  In one of those villages, there was a gathering of people who where grieving the death of a beloved member of their small community.  This man was the father of one of Sandun’s close friends.  The man was apparantly having investment troubles and couldn’t “handle life’s troubls” as Sandun explained, and so he drank a bottle of poisen.  We quietly passed a large group (woman separated by the men) of grieving Sri Lankans, and entered the family’s household where the man was peacefully laying, dressed all in white, accompanied by his living photograph.  This man would lay in his families living room for 3 days as the villagers would come to pay homage to him.  (Because it was colder than usual those nights, the villagers stayed up with the body to make sure that the bugs that where finding protection from the cold didn’t take an early start on his body) As a Sri Lankan tradition, Sandun and I sat in silence with our appropriate gender for the next 10 minutes.  My presence was acknowledged by smiles and bows of head in appreciation and gratitude for my visit. 

We passed the gravesite for Sandun’s grandmother, and stopped to say a prayer.  I later saw a photo of her, she was just lovely, at her altar in his grandfather’s home.  Finally at our destination, we were greeted by Sandun’s aunt’s pet peacock.  The pink painted cement home is in the middle of the jungle.  The home’s windows are permantely open as there is no separation between inside and outside.  We drank the most delicious coffee (straight from his grandfather’s coffee plants) and did a lot of sitting.  A lot of sitting, and chatting between Sandun and me, and some more sitting in other places.  Sandun went off into the jungle (he wouldn’t tell me why at this point) and I explored every part of his grandfather’s property. I investigated the leaves, scents, and insects of various trees and plants and followed the movements of the brush to find the little animal within it’s branches. 

Sandun soon emerged from the jungle carrying a handful of various Sri Lankan flowers, each exuding the sweetest smells on the earth.  Earlier that day I had been carying around a bundle of flowers that smelled of candy grapfruit, constantly pressing it up my nose.  Sandun promised to find me all of the most beautiful smelling flowers of Sri Lanka, which he surely lived up to.  Each flower, a different size, shape and color, smelled like a combination of the sweetest fruits, perfumes, and candies in the world!  i just want to eat them up!

Sandun’s grandfather, cousin, and aunt do not speak English either, but non the less enjoyed my visit and would like me to come back for dinner soon. Sandun went to school until he was 18 (he is 20 years old now) in which he learned various skills such as fishing, navigation, mechanics, and a bit of geography.  He taught himself English and practiced with foreigners on the beach.  He would like me to help him get an email address and show him how to use a computer!  It’s amazing to me that we studied different things in school that would help us in our different areas and ways of life.  Regardless of my level of education, I would no doubt fail all of his examinations! 

Time with Sandun

Sandun (pronounced SAHN-doon) is one of my friends that lives in the village behind Amanwella.  I met him during my first week at Aman through one of the butlers, Sampath.  Sandun first invited me to go octopus hunting with him and his father, but that time we were unsuccessful.  Fortunately there ARE really other fish in the sea and we ventured through rock and coral as Sandun pointed out interesting creatures or showing me which ones where dangerous.  He picks creatures up out of the water and shows them to me while giving me a detailed explanation on their living situation, eating habits, and detail about their body parts etc.  He showed me how to pick up star fish without breaking their limbs and how to gently pull one of the many spikes of the sea urchen to watch them flinch. 

I found myself snorkeling with Sandun everyday, finding new kinds of fish, venturing further and further off the coast and being able to swim deeper below the sea’s surface.  Recently I was able to realise that in addition to enjoying our under the sea adventures, I enjoy Sandun’s company.  One day I vocalised my slight frusturation with the fact that I hadn’t explored much of the area yet and that I finally was going to see the Rock Temple.  I told him my driver Lalith was going to charge me 1,000 SLR’s, and asked if that was a good deal.

“You are going by yourself?  I can come with you and my friend can drive us for free!”

I accepted his offer and rode with him and Dinush to the Rock Temple in Mulgirigala 25 kms away.  It felt so nice to be in the tuk tuk, driving through villages and seeing people and places.  I had always wondered what it would be like to drive a tuk tuk so you can imagine how pleased I was when Dinush offered to show me how to drive it.  It was obviously manuel, and I do not have much experience with a clutch, but somehow I did it.  I drove us the entire way through crazy Sri Lankan traffic (with the lovely addition of vehiches honking due to my slow speed) to the Rock Temple.     

The Rock Temple is a beautiful monestary build around a sacred rock.  There are several mural covered caves throughout the rock containing giant sleeping Buddhas, and one of the dead Buddha.  You can climb over 500 steps to the top of the rock where you will find a breathtaking view of the jungle (monkeys included!) 

Moments i LIVE for 

We could see rain clouds in the distance so I made Sandun wait till they were right over our heads so we could sit on the top in the pouring rain.  Sure enough only moments later the monsoon shower began!!  Large warm raindrops danced on my face, drenching my clothes and hair!  I played in the rain the entire way down and the others took refuge underneath the trees and hid under their umbrellas.  I muddied up my feed and jumped in puddles.  Sandun bought us some tea from a street vendor to warm us up for the ride home.

Back in the Village

Before arriving back at Amanwella, I went to Sandun’s house to meet his family.  I met his little sister (8 years old), mother, aunt (who lives next door), and his two cousins (8 years old and 16 years old).  I enjoyed another cup of Ceylon tea while I watched his aunt cut stacks of cloth into pieces which would soon develop into a t-shirt.  Sandun’s aunt sews plain t-shirts (and there are other designs that are more complicated) and she recieved around 300 SLR’s for each one from the stores.  No one else in his family speaks English, but the children non-the-less hung around us curiously watching Sandun and I speak foreign talk.  His family insists that I come back soon for dinner.  I happily oblige.  

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