I think I now understand more fully why the Chinese declare to be your good friend after having met you once, your best friend after a couple of drinks together, and your brother or your sister after you've shared enough ganbei's to warrant it. The more friends you have the more connections you have, and the more connections....well, it's all about the connections. I got to use my connections for the first time today when Viv (who is in the sister category I reckon) realised her Dad knew the driver of the bus to Guangzhou. I now don't need to buy a ticket in advance, will have the best seat reserved for me and will get a reduced rate....