‘Love, Hate, Love, Hate’ - China
Saturday, December 13th, 2008After spending three-plus weeks in China: visiting Beijing to see The Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square, Summer Palace, The Great Wall (and much more); Shanghai for the city & food; Xi’ An for the Terracotta Soldiers; Chengdu (in the Sichuan Province) for the Pandas; Leshan for the tallest Buddha in the world (among other beautiful sites in Leshan). I was at a point in my travels where my feelings for China were mixed.
There could be various reasons and instances that may have lead to this. Maybe it was the way the Chinese come off so abrupt at times. Granted the Chinese language have many tones, which sound quite strong. I could be sitting with my back away from two Chinese people and only hear them speaking and to me it would sound like they were having an argument. But, when I turn around they are actually just having a casual conversation (whatever that might be- I cannot ‘decode’ Chinese)! It could also be how they are so’fixaded’ on money! “Pay Now, Pay Now” was the motto in most restaurants, hostels, shops and ticket booths. Or, it could be, there lack of respect they have for individual space or queue’s (compared to my Western-’norms’). For example; I was queued up for a ticket at a train station (mind you the ticket queue was only for foreigners) in an orderly manner, when several Chinese men, bypassed the queue and pushed their way to the front of the line and started hollering in the hole in the window of the ticket booth. This did not just happen on one occasion, but many times throughout the course of my travels in China…..they always interrupted a line by going straight to the front, regardless if there are people patiently waiting ahead of them. It could also be their need to erase/bulldoze their ancient artifacts, rather than preserve them to their natural state, they just assume build over them based on what ‘tourist’ might like. Maybe the Chinese tourist enjoy looking at the ‘new and improved’ version of the old (which, I think they do, because they travel by the bus loads to see them). However, for a ‘westerner,’ like myself, i don’t want to see a new rendition of the old! Oh and smiles….smiles are hard to come by in China. I can count on both hands the amount of smiles I actually saw in China within the first three weeks of visiting. These are just a few scenarios that have possible put me in a “love, hate” relationship with China after three weeks of traveling.
Maybe because of my ‘love, hate’ relationship, I decided to press on and give China a few more weeks and see a few more cities…..’smaller’ cities. It is difficult to actually find a small city in a country of a billion. I was told the Yunnan Province is wonderful, so I decided to go from the middle of China (Sichuan Province) to the farthest west you can reach without actually going into Tibet. So off I went to; Dali, Shagri-La, Tiger Leaping Gorge and Lijiang.